PRAYER REQUESTS: I need some help! How can i help my boyfriend to stop masturbating and watching porn?
  • micaela1micaela1 February 15

    Hi, I´m a Christian girl from latin america and I have a boyfriend who I
    met in church 4 years ago, we had been together for 2 years now and I
    just discover that my boyfriend watch porn, I feet so bad about it and
    I had being telling him that he should stop and that is not right to
    do that, I don´t wanna leave him because I love him and I wanna get
    marry with him, but I know that he needs to heal that problem first,
    things had been really bad with him lately he doesn´t want to go to
    church, he said that he loves God but he doesn't know how to stop
    masturbating and watching porn, he doesn´t wanna talk with any of our
    pastors or people in church and I seriously don´t know what to do
    anymore, I´d being trying to help him, but honestly I don´t know how
    to do that anymore, the other day he told me that he loves me but he
    doesn´t wanna hurt me and that he doesn´t know if he wants to get
    marry with me or not... I love him so much but this is hurting me too,
    and if he doesn´t wanna be with me anymore I feel that if I left him
    he will get worst, so I will appreciate all your help. I don´t know
    what to do anymore... How can i help my boyfriend to stop masturbating
    and watching porn?

    please pray for my boyfriend.

  • stwy2zeppelinstwy2zeppelin February 19

    @micaela1, I am praying for you as I type this note.

    First of all, how awesome that you are a member from Latin America! I love being internationally connected.

    Second, the best thing to do is to pray for him. I'm sure that you are already doing that. I have to be honest when I say that I do not have a perfect solution. I thought of intervention, ONLY because it seems that your boyfriend is losing hope in himself, and in God. I don't want anything to happen to him, or to you, that can be physically or spiritually harmful.

    Sit down with him one day and pray with him. Let your boyfriend know that there are thousands of people that are struggling with the same issues, people like myself and others on this forum. Let him know how much you love him, but how much more God loves him and wants him.

    God bless you, and never, ever give up! Remember that God loves you, too.

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